Showing posts with label confused. Show all posts
Showing posts with label confused. Show all posts

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Birealist, bicurious or biphobic?

Here is a quick bisexual check-list:
  1. Bisexuality is not just a phase.
  2. Bisexuals are not confused when they find peace with their sexual orientation.
  3. Bisexuality is not a combination of heterosexuality, homosexuality or anything else.
  4. Bisexuals do not have to be equally attracted to men, women and transsexuals.
  5. Bisexuals can love one partner and be faithful.
  6. Bisexuals can be in a loving relationship.
  7. not everyone can be a bisexual.
How many times do you agree with a statement?


Results:
  • If you agree over six times, you are birealist.
  • If you agree over four times, you are bicurious.
  • If you agree under two times, you are biphopic.

Have a nice day - whatever is your score!

Friday, January 28, 2011

There is no (bi)sexuality

“I am not real, my sexual orientation is just a phase and I cheat whenever I find a possibility to do so. When I am in the opposite sex relationship I am gay and when I am in same sex relationship I am straight. Believing in bisexual identity is like betraying everyone around me. Not believing it makes me invisible and kills my basic needs and dreams. Same goes with all of the other people like me and celebrated historical persons in the world. They were lying about themselves to us. 

I have been told to be continuously confused for decades. Everyone is born sexual. I just could not make up my mind. I have been in a monogamous relationship for years now but that is just mocking real couples and love. I just want to f*ck everything that moves because I have to have sex with both genders simultaneously. I cannot help but spread sexually transmitted diseases with my sexual behavior. That is why it is okay to harass me without feeling guilty or shame. 

My way of living an adult life is a public prey on a daily basis of other people and media even never knowing me or asking a single question about my everyday life. If I could only understand all of this, admit being mentally ill and stop labeling myself, it would be better for all of us. It would not be so uncomfortable to be my colleague, acquaintance, friend or lover.” 

I have had only one question on my mind all of these years. How it would change the world if you could walk a day in my shoes? 


               Discriminating is wrong. 


                Refuse to be a victim.